Post by sumon123 on Aug 20, 2024 8:37:07 GMT
So I needed to tell her about it. Jules Pieri Yes! Oh my gosh, yes. Exactly. John Jentsch This is interesting. , where can people find out more about, more about you, and "how we make stuff now" actually, it's going to be a website called "" that talks about what's in the book, I made a video about the book there, and it's a great place to get other resources as well. Asking questions actually gives control to the other person, because it feels really good when you give advice. You feel smart, you feel like you're adding value, you feel like you have high status in the relationship, you feel like you're an important person in this conversation even though your advice isn't always great even though you think it is It's nice, and half the time you're solving the wrong problem, but it still feels like a pretty comfortable place to be.
I listed the references in the book chapter by chapter, but I added to them each week https://bcellphonelist.com/ after the book was published because I learned something. I will keep it as a living document to help me personally., "Okay, is that a good question? Do they understand the question? If they give me an answer that I don't understand, or I do understand it, but it's crazy, will What’s going on” now where the conversation goes is you’re actually empowering others, but behind the empowerment is the insight that you’re giving up power because I know that no one on this call is going to say, “I’m against empowerment.
John Jentsch is awesome. Jules, it’s great to hear your story, and it’s great to hear about the book and the work you’re doing. It must be very gratifying to see these people who are struggling and you really cheer them up. "I want my team to feel empowered. But hearing clearly when the rubber hits the road means you're giving up some control. Giving up some power, becoming more like a coach, asking questions, is one of the most effective ways to do that, but You have to live with the discomfort of “I allow this person to take control and I play the bigger game.